Monday, January 31, 2011

Christopher "Logan" Borquez

  Chris and I have chosen a name for Kal-el's little brother. Following in true super hero fashion of our first child it was now my turn to throw out some of my favorite super hero names. I loved the fact that we named Kal-el after Superman but mainly because I thought the name was pretty. I wasn't nearly as big of a Superman fan as my husband. I am a Marvel girl all the way. My cousin Zach and I grew up reading X-men comics and literally know just about every mutant character that there is! This is one of my favorite parts of having little boys. I can't wait to relive this comic geekdom with my babies. I know, I know totally unexpected coming from me. I think the thing I loved about it most when I was a child was that the women characters were super hot but smart, strong, and powerful as well so I always ended up watching boy cartoons lol!
  I debated for a couple of days which hero I wanted baby boy #2 to be named after. I already knew his first hero should be his Daddy. So we decided on Christopher for the first name.  Since Kal-el's first name is Thomas, after Poppa we wanted to do the same thing with this little guy and do the superhero middle name. I had alot of narrowing down to do because our children go by their middle names so it had to be just right! I thought up until the very day of the gender reveal that his name would be "Xavier" after Professior Charles Xavier. To keep it from getting complicated we were going to call him "Zav". I loved the sound of it but something else kept nagging at me.
* *Warning unless you are a fan this next line of thought will make absolutely ZERO since to you **
Well, sure professior X is the ring leader so to speak and without him the Xmen may not of ever been formed. And there is the fact that he's an Omega level mutant..one of just a handful deemed powerful enough to carry that title. Then there are the social parallels that surround the comic and the endless references/ comparions of Professior X's to Martin Luther King. Yes, it's more complicated then capes and flying.
However in the end there were a couple of things that still bugged me about naming a child after this character. For starters Professior X, although extreamly powerful is so kind that sometimes he appears a bit bland and somewhat preachy. He is also confined to a wheelchair, which I think is wonderful as far as teaching children about disabilties but I just couldn't see him as a good fit name wise compared to some of the others who have so much fire and such intriguing back stories. Then there was the fact that I liked the nickname "Zav" so much better than the actual full name "Xavier" which started to seem really drawn out to me. 
 I then considered my favorite male X-man character, Wolverine...whos real name is Logan. I just couldn't decide if I liked the name. It almost sounded a little country/western to me at first. The more I thought about it the more I liked it and it just made more since with the type of characters I love in the series. Besides prefering a certain name is purely psychological and largely based on association and I soon realised that everytime I heard the name Logan I immediately thought of the character not how I thought the name sounded outside of that. I was already attached to the name in such a positive way. Chris and I slept on it and both came to the same conclusion...Wolverine is such a bad%$$, anti-authority/anti-hero character with so much swagger how could we not go with him! Umm ok maybe those were my words but regardless we were in total agreement and decided to go with Logan! I am posting his 20 week ultrasound photo below. You can already tell he favors Kal-el a good bit. Looks like this little guy also has his Mommy's lips just like his big brother...other than that you really can't tell alot about a blurry black and white photo :)

                                                Brothers
This first picture is Logan..he is trying to suck his little thumb..he was all curled up in the ultrasound. I was wrong when I thought he had a foot in my bladder ..he actually has BOTH feet in my bladder lol. nice :) He also played coy and was quiet shy during the ultrasound. He was such a gentleman opting to cover himself with his little hands when we were searching to locate his gender. Ahhem..unlike his big brother whos ultrasound picture would make you blush! lol

This second picture is of our current wild child..knowing Kal-el there is no telling what
he was up to when he was in the womb..looks kinda like he's "walking like an egyptian" or perhaps doing the "Superman" dance lol probably the latter :)

Saturday, January 29, 2011

It's A.......

  Today we had the much anticipated gender reveal party with my family. I had my ultrasound on Thursday. They were NOT happy with me that I tormented them for an entire 48 hours after my appointment to find out the sex. I will have to say that it was worth the wait to get together with everyone and share the news at once ..with what else? A  yummy CAKE to make the announcement! So without further ado we would like to proudly announce the newest edition to our family come June and ......

It's a BOY!!! Christopher "Logan" Borquez !

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

A Matter of Sex....

   Er... well GENDER at least! Tomorrow is the big day. We will offically find out the gender of Borquez baby #2!! One of my friends ask me if today felt like Christmas Eve? Well she described my emotions to a T! Thats exactly how I feel the day before this highly anticipated reveal. I had orginally planned on doing a gender reveal party to announce the baby's sex but instead I've decided to go smaller scale and have a small cake ..either pink or blue on the inside to inform the family. Because of Chris's work schedule we will more than likely wait and eat lunch somewhere Saturday and cut the cake afterwards. That is if I can keep a secret from my family for 2 entire days. It wouldn't be an easy task anyway but you don't know my bunch lol!
    At least I will get to find out on the table this time! When we went for our 20 week appointment with Kal-el I opted to have a little suprise for myself and told them not to tell me the sex. We made plans for all of us to get together that evening for a dinner at Fiesta. Chris bought two little gifts for me..one for a boy and the other for a girl. He would give me the gift that corresponded with the sex of our first child as soon as we were done eating. The only two people that knew right away were my husband and Poppa. Chris just had to tell him. It was their little secret for 5 whole hours. So sweet! :) I spent the rest of the afternoon following our appointment trying to gage Chris's reactions to different statements I would make in regards to gender. He hid it well..I couldn't figure it out or get anything out of him. Looking back I had all the confirmation I needed in the ultrasound when I turned my head to avoid the screen and saw the biggest smile I'd ever seen spread across Chris's face. Dinner couldn't arrive fast enough. I rushed the entire meal as much as possible! When I finally opened my gift there was pink on top but I know what a prankster my spouse is so I kept digging and found a sweet little note along with lots of blue suprises : Hello! I'm going to be a Mommy's boy..we love you
Melted my heart! It honestly took me a few days to get used to the idea of a little boy...for some reason I freaked out and pictured him coming out as a  smelly teenager covered in pimples, with a disrespectful mouth, ready to impregnant the world. This is so funny to me now because I'm all about baby boys especially my little heart breaker. He's the light of mine and Chris's life and I'm in love with the fact that he's ALL boy. God knew just what I needed when he blessed us with Super! :)
    So tomorrow is the day...Do I have a preference this time you ask? Honestly......no. Orginally I would of definately responded "girl".... however now that I know what it's like to love a baby boy I am almost biased towards them. Kal-el has just been that awesome. I'll say what I've said all along. I would love the experience of raising both sexes but I love what I know so far. To me its a win/win come tomorrow as long as baby #2 is healthy. I either get a brand new experience altogether OR I get to experience what I already know and adore! I'm totally split down the middle and I guess thats a good thing since my odds are 50/50! Part of me loves the idea of a little me with bows and heels and another part of me loves the idea of being the only girly girl and getting doted on by the sweet boys in my life. I know one thing for sure..I'm tired of saying "baby" and completely ready to call this little one by his/her name!!!

Here are some pictures from our gender reveal when I was pregnant with Kal-el a couple of years ago..such fun memories..and to think we get to do it again...so excited!

Chris "Bear" tricking me :)



Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Happy Birthday Zach & Caleb!

You know what time it is don't you? Yep, family birthday time! I love the fact that we all still make a point to get together and celebrate each other. This special Mario and Luigi party was thrown by Aunt Shane for Zach and Caleb's Birthday. Zach turned 25 and Shane's sweet grandson turned 9!  Zach and I have always been big kids at heart. I remember playing hours of Nintendo together when we were kids. Well, we're still kids and this was the most awesome birthday theme ever! Great job Aunt Shane! We even watched some of the Super Mario brothers cartoon. Ahhh..memories :) Now if only someone will have an X-Men birthday I'll be thrilled! Happy Birthday Zach AKA" Beast" and Caleb! :-)

The yummy cake!
Caleb, Zach, & Cameron!
Its-A Maaarrio!
Aunt Shane had these adorable stars and clouds hanging from the light fixture!
Unc Zach & Kal-el
Kal-el & Caleb
Lol Nannie as "Luigi"
I get to be the chunkier prego "Mario"
Me & Lee Lee
There's always time for dance games on the Wii :)
Work it boys!
And lastly by favorite Super Mario characters.....
The Koopa Kids!!!


Monday, January 24, 2011

Farewell Gentle Giant..We love you Tuggs and you will forever live in our hearts!

 Our family lost a beloved pet this past Friday. Our beautiful Newfoundland Tuggs finally succumbed to old age/hip deterioration after a decade of bringing immeasurable love and happiness to our lives. His loss will leave a void in us that no other animal will ever fulfill but his beautiful spirit will always be with us. Memories and unique reminders of him are all around us and while at present may be a little painful, will certainly be cherished for a lifetime. He's unique large size always drew attention and intrigue from  young and old. If only they knew how big his heart was. He was small in stature compared to what a huge heart our gentle giant had. I feel honored to have been given the opportunity to love this golden animal.
  I can recall vividly the day that my parents and I made the trip to pick Tuggs up at the Birmingham airport. My mother had researched several breeds after losing a previous fur baby and realized that she loved everything about the breed and it would be a wonderful fit for our family. He came from a wonderful bloodline of beautiful show newfies with unbeatable temperaments. My mom got put on a waiting list and a few months later we got the call. He was the only pup in his litter. When he saw pictures of him on the internet we fell in love. He was a bit of a investment so expectations were set high for this new "little" pup. I must say that he more than exceeded them. Ten years later I truly believe that there could not of been a better choice made and I will always love and think highly of this breed. Tuggs and Mom have shared an incredible bond ever since the day he was brought into our lives. They have been totally inseparable. My mother had two children..one had fur :) I know his loss was tremendously hard for her.  Everyone that met Tuggs couldn't help but fall in love with him. Chris and I have been together 6 of the 10 years of Tuggs life and they developed a very special bond as well. He even gave Chris one last goodbye kiss before he finally rested. We all had a very hard time saying goodbye. The one thing that gives us solace is knowing this beautiful life is not suffering any longer and that he is at peace. This simple truth allows us to continue to love him freely, at a distance, with precious memories to serve us ...so that he may always live in our hearts. Goodbye, sweet gentle giant....words could never express what you truly meant to us! You are now our Angel Bear...

WatchBear's Tugg Boat Willie - April 2001- Jan 21st 2011
















Bringing Tuggs Home- 2001

























More sweet pictures to come...

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Book of the Month- Being Borquez Blog Book- Second Edition

 Hooray! The second of our blog books has finally arrived. I must say that once again I am very pleased with the company, quality,and appearance of this latest book. I had orginally planned on doing one book per calender year HOWEVER because of my incorporation of Wordless Wednesday, the fact that I  post more, as well as add more pictures in general I exceeded the page limit allowed per book and now must resort to now doing a biannual blog book. I actually like this idea better. Primarily because now I wont have nearly as long of a wait! I will say that this second book is huge... its easily twice as big as my previous one. I think it works better because the company I order from now gives you the option of printing exactly the way your blog is laid out as opposed to trying to squeeze everything in one page. Once again the only aspect that has room for improvement is the cover choices for the book. I'm still pleased with the overall look because I wanted something "happy" looking to go with cartoon blog header I had made for the blog. So here it is ..the second edition of Being the Borquez's! :)

A random Wordless Wednesday with Super...they do a great job with the color
and printing process.
Father's Day Story..one of my favorites
The Lost series finale party!
The back cover :)

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

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