Kal-el's Birthday invitations

I've been planning Kal-el's First Birthday celebration for over a month now and I'm thrilled that all the little details are starting to come together. I am even more estatic about the fact that I didnt wait until the last minute to plan little mans big day.  Today I received a copy of the proof for Super's birthday invitations. They really fit the theme we are going for perfectly. We are sticking to a safari theme for a couple of reasons. The first being that he is still just so in love with his stuffed animal Carter the lion and secondly that is the theme of his nursery so it just seemed like a great concept to continue with. I can't wait for all of the other fun items that I've ordered to arrive. I can tell right now that I'm going to be the type of mother that loves planning parties for her little ones. Here is Kal-el's First Birthday Invitation!

My Valentines

What a wonderful Valentine's Day! This is the first time I've had two Valentines instead of one. Chris and I always do a little something for each other. Its not a huge occasion for us b/c we usually focus more attention on our anniversary and birthdays. Chris calls it "the government holiday" designed to boost retail sales in Feburary and says everyday should be Valentine's Day with the person you love. I tend to agree but that didnt stop him from getting me the most beautiful documentary style photo album and heart melting card. Awww :) I found a really neat Black Mamba tshirt and an equally precious card for him. We kept it simple but very thoughtful. Kal-el is a another story. We are continuing onward in our quest to ruin him. This was effectively done this year wth loads on stuffed Valentine's animals, Valentine themed apperal, lip prints courtsey of Mommy, lots of cards from the family, and a sweet cookie treat. He really had such a great time and I had so much fun taking these pictures of him. Happy First Valentine's Day Kal-el. You have stolen Mommy and Daddy's heart. Muah! XOXO

Cupcakes and Gluesticks

I'm a little odd. Sometimes. Or as I like to think just really preceptive. I have always had a heighted since of smell. I can smell food cooking or a fire burning miles away. People that love me and therefore tolerate me lovingly say its b/c I adore food a bit too much and I'm nerotic enough to think that anything that smells remotely like smoke must mean there is a house burning down somewhere in the distance. I'm not totally crazy experts say that the strongest sense tied to memory is scent and I correlate many childhood memories with smell. My Little Pony's sweet plastic smell will always be a reminder of preschool to me. Not even sure why. When I'm at a coffee shop I always think of my Mother b/c even when I  was a small child she would always drink coffee. When I think of the way waffle cones smell baking it takes me back to the first date that my husband and shared at Brusters Ice Cream shop. I also have a scent that I associate with almost every human being that I'm close to. Naturally when I became a mother the new most precious gift in my life would also have a hallmark scent to me. I'm sure all mothers can relate to this. There are so many smells associated with a baby. I can best describe Super's unique smell as cukcakes and gluesticks. Sounds silly but I find it so endearing.

A day in the life of us....

I never want to miss the small things so I thought I'd dedicate a post to what a typical day looks like for us. Family time is the most important thing in the world to me and when we are all a little older I want to be able to remember small details that trigger special memories not just the big events. They are equally important and deserve special attention of their own. I love when Chris has an off night b/c we are all together. Here's what typical week night look like. I figure pictures are worth 1,000 words!

Chris has been working very hard lately on remodeling our downstairs

bathroom. The job is almost finished I can't wait to post the final results!

I usually grab munchkin up as soon as I walk in from work and give huggs and kisses

to both my boys if Chris is off, if he is not Super gets me all to himself. Everyone has been

 telling us lately that Kal-el is

starting to look like Mommy. I'm fine with this b/c he has spent tons of time

looking just like DADA and I would like a turn thank you!

Woo Hoo supper time for Super. Some of his favorite dinner time snacks are:

banannas, fishsticks, green beans, sweet potatoes, chicken, or a mashed up hamburger

Happy Meal. He is such a food eater but he does make a big mess! This mostly

occurs when he is done eating and protests additional bites by either throwing or pushing

chunks of food off his tray. He most definately perfers to feed himself.

Mimsy loves giving Kal-el his bedtime bath. Baby boy has never been

scared of water. He lets the water run all down his face and splashes and plays the entire time.

He is a wild man in the water!

On nights that he allows it, we put Kal-el in his pack n play to play with his

toys and let him wind down some. He has gotten so much better about independant play time.

My little man is growing up.

There is always cuddle time before we head upstairs to bed.

Sometimes Kal-el puts up a pretty big fight regarding sleep other times

he will just fall asleep on Chris or I holding him while we watch tv.

Are far as co sleeping goes..I'll let you guess but I'm sure this next picture

will solve the mystery really fast. This is the first thing that I'm blessed to see every single morning.

Love them to pieces!

Kal-el fell off the bed for the first time last night. Chris wasnt home from work

and training and ting ting sleeps right in between us. He crawled right out from under

my arms and rolled of the bed but he is prefectly fine. Thank God! Luckily our bed is low to the floor

but it was still scary. We are going to try in the upcoming weeks

to get him back in his big boy room!

I'm am so happy with my life. I feel richly blessed beyond measure and I dont ever want to take even

the so called smallest things for granted.

Daddy's( AKA "The Black Mamba") Hobby

About 6 or 7 months ago Chris told me that he wanted to start training to do MMA fights. After much thought and hesitation I reluctantly agreed. It's not that I didnt believe in my husbands potential its just that I had very real concerns regarding his safety and knew very little about the sport or the people he was training with. I attended a couple of practices and got to know everyone on the Don't Blink fight team. I was really impressed. Everyone was so nice and took their training very seriously. Chris has worked so hard over the past 7 months and I couldnt possibly be anymore proud of him. The amount of discipline and dedication he has shown  has really impressed me. Fast forward 7 months to the night of Chris's very first fight. I think its pretty safe to say the I was a complete spaz, my nerves on edge. I just know that sometimes strange unexpected things can happen even with all the training in the world but I knew in my heart that Chris was ready. I got a hint of things to come at weigh ins the previous night. I was suprised by my usually socially aloof husband He really put on a show with the stare down that took place. If looks could kill LOL. After weighs ins we all went to eat at a local resturant its kind of tradition being how alot of the fighters including Chris have to dramatically decrease their food intake or better yet crease to eat at all 24 hours before stepping on the scales. We "enjoyed" dinner then headed home so we could get Chris some rest so he could be fight ready for the next day. The following night was the big fight. The place was packed wall to wall. Several of mine and Chris's good friends were there to show support. Two other guys from Don't Blink had fights before Chris. His fight was number 7. After two suprise losses from our first two fighters I didn't think I could take much more. So by the time Chris came out I thought I would pass out. There it was again.. the same "stage presence" if you will that I saw the previous night. His entrance was great and my throat is still sore from screaming so loudly. I feel so sorry for the people who had to sit next to us girls. They probably deserve a refund. The bell sounded and the cage was locked. No going back now. I really wanted to close my eyes but there was no way I could miss this. All my worries where soon over. Over in a minute and three seconds to be exact. Chris won via submission with a choke out! Yes! Their were no injuries, that includes the other guy to. Thank God. Chris said that was his prayer as he went in. Immediately after the fight upon acieving his win he was still very interactive with the crowd. A whole new very confident yet not cocky persona. He really seemed to be 100% at ease and his is element. Later I found out that he was actually talking to his corner in the middle of the fight and made the statement along the lines of "I got this now" :) Impressive Chris bear very impressive! I couldnt contain myself much longer I couldnt wait to run up to him and get a kiss. I think the thing that impressed me the most, more than the win, more than his stage presense, and more than his stellar technique that night was how gracious he was after the fight and the good sportsmanship and respect he showed the other fighter after it was all over. We may even go watch the other teams next fight. Chris really outshines me in this area. I have a tendency to be a hot head at times. I even got reprimanded for being too obnioux about his win on social networking sites! You humble me Chris I truely hope Kal-el gets this quality from you. What a great night. I'm so happy that all of my husbands time, effort, and training paid off in a big way. His next fight will be a few months down the road and instead of laying back and enjoying his win he has already pointed out some things that he feels he needs to work on. After watching the video 5,000 I dont agree lol. He just wants to make sure that he never takes it for granted or becomes too comfortable. I'm thrilled that I get to be apart of this journey with him. I love the fact that we always support each others dreams and are each others biggest fans! And come April or whenever his next fight is we WILL be ready ...Don't Blink!

Chris and his opponent at weigh ins

The stare down lol

Right before we left for the fight

Many more pictures to come as soon as everyoner sends them to us!!!

Mommy's Hobby

 I have stated before I am semi retired from my old hobby/past time of modeling. I got into modeling almost by accident as I had never dreamed of anything of that nature as a child. My first love is and always will be psychology. Modeling has merely been a carefree creative outlet for me. I use the word semi retired because I always manage to find just one more person that I want to work with. Although I havent shot since Super arrived I do plan on at least shooting 3 more times. Thats my goal anyway.  If I can stay far far away from cupcakes and southern fried anything for a few months! I was the  most active in the modeling scene about 3 years ago. . I got to experience so many wonderful opportuities and adventures. I will have some neat stories to pass on to Kal-el so I'm trying to archive just a few of them here.  I actually got pretty lucky several times as far as magazines and print work are concerned. Mostly glamour magazines. I took/take alot of pride in my work but it does require an open mind for older generations as it is very similar to pin up style but in very good taste in my opinion.  I turned down playboy in 2005. I was very opposed to poseing in my Birthaday suit for several reasons. Mostly moral. Kal-el will no doubt be very thankful for this when he attends high school and has no lunch room drama about his neekid Mommy lol. My most fond memory is my imfamous trip to LA to appear on the tv show Beauty and the Geek. Wow a dream and a nightmare all rolled into one. Upon landing at the airport I was treated like a celebrity. I was picked up in a very fancy limo and taken to a beautiful 5 star hotel. Long story short I was basicly locked in a hotel room for 3 days stright and not allowed to see the light of day while producers conducted interviews with cast members. It was all top secret and the reason they didnt want us out and about was of course liability reasons while we were in their care and the fact that they didnt want cast members socializing prior to tapeing. I felt safe b/c of course security was high and food was free and the pay was pretty good for the whole 72 hours I was there. I was then sent home, abruptly with no explanation other than I wasnt right for the show! What a let down! I was relieved in a way b/c during filming we werent allowed to talk to anyone over the phone for a duration of an entire month! I would of lost my mind not talking to Chris or my family. That and the fact that I was conveinced in my mind that they had my hotel room bugged. Yes, I'm paranoid. Walking outsie of the hotel that morning it couldnt of been anymore apparent that my Cinderella bubble had burst when low and behold my beautiful horse and carriage was now a pumpkin in the form of a hideaous taxi with gum stuck to it..lol I guess thats Hollywood for ya ;) Flying home from my wonderful journey didnt get much better when we encountered snow and ice on the last flight home. It was there that I spent 10 hours on a plane that didnt move for a 45 min flight!!! My life is never ever dull. I couldnt of been happier at that point to be back home. For all of my troubles on this trip and a few others, all my dieting and disapline, and all of my  time and creative energy I have some incredible images to show for it and have worked with some really amazing , talented , and even celebrity photographers this was all  more than I ever asked for. After all it is just a hobby and I consider myself very lucky no more effort than I put into it. My new hobby you ask? Blogging silly!
Here are some of my favorite pictures from my portfolio!

Coming up next....Daddy's Hobby!!!

Started Crawling....

No, not Kal-el..he's been there and done that. This would be in reference to us lol. Oh the sweet silly things that we do for our little ones. Super finds us stalking him across the floor extreamly entertaining so we ablidge him over and over and over again. Sometimes he laughs so hard he has to catch his breath. We must look pretty crazy! Last night Nannie gave us a call asking us if we wanted to come over for super. Of course! Even though I'm trying my best to do this diet thing right now I never turn down an opportunity to spend time with my grandparents esp if Nan has cooked. I know these precious times wont be around forever so I'd be ashamed not to take advantage of them. After our delicious dinner Chris and I and Nannie and Poppa played with Kal-el in the living room for awhile. He is so much fun. He loves telephones, the cell variety, land lines, he has no preference. He spent a good deal of time "talking" on Nannies phone. This joy could only last so long though and soon my little Super was bored and throwing a mini fit. Time to pull out our parental bag of tricks! Before you know it we are all taking turns crawling across the floor to entertain Kal-el. I'm quite sure this wont be the first or last time I look silly for the sake of my child. Luckily I dont mind it one bit! :)

I now have 7 teeth..Watch out!!!

Heeeere comes DADA

He got you!

Mommy's turn, please excuse my no makeup and unkept hair! :)

Rawr!! Please again excuse my crazy, insane lady face!

Yay Nannie joins in on the fun!